Question 1

What is Free to Be?

Accepted Answer

Free to Be is a welcoming community for LGBTQIA+ teens ages 12–17. Each month, we host a gathering with a planned activity, creating a relaxed and supportive space for teens to connect, participate, and have fun.

Question 2

Who can attend?

Accepted Answer

Teens, ages 12-17, who identify as part of the LGBTQIA+ community are welcome. (Allies are welcomed to accompany their friend.)

Question 3

Do I need to register or sign up?

Accepted Answer

Yes. As minors, teens are required to have permission to attend, and registration helps ensure the safety of participants.

Question 4

Is Free to Be a support group or therapy program?

Accepted Answer

Free to Be is NOT a therapy group or counseling service. It is a social, community‑based space designed to be relaxed, safe, and welcoming. While we strive to be inclusive and affirming, we are not equipped to provide crisis intervention, therapy, or clinical mental health support.

Question 5

Is there a cost to attend?

Accepted Answer

There is no cost to attend. Participation and activities are free of charge.

Question 6

What kind of activities do you offer?

Accepted Answer

Activities vary but often include art or craft nights, game nights, Bingo, seasonal or themed activities, etc.

Question 7

How often do you meet?

Accepted Answer

Free to Be meets on the fourth Friday of every month.

Question 8

Where do meetings take place?

Accepted Answer

For safety reasons, location is only disclosed once registration is received. You will be notified about upcoming meeting details, including location, via email.

Question 9

Are there rules?

Accepted Answer

We abide by these simple rules to ensure everyone's comfort and safety.
1. No cell phone use/photos.
2. No inappropriate language.
3. Respect personal space of others.
4. BE KIND.

Question 10

I'm shy and don't know anyone. Will I fit in?

Accepted Answer

Absolutely. Many teens come for the first time without knowing anyone. We make it easy to ease in, introduce yourself slowly, and join in when you’re comfortable.

Question 11

Who leads the gatherings?

Accepted Answer

Compassionate and trusted adult volunteers lead the program. All leaders are required to have background checks.

Question 12

Can parents/guardians attend?

Accepted Answer

Free to Be activities are designed specifically for teens, so parents/guardians do not stay during gatherings. However, parents/guardians are permitted to stay in a waiting area if they wish.

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